Betsy Zimmerman, PhD, NCC

Clinical Administrator
Resident in Counseling
Certified in Brainspotting

Specialties: Trauma, Discernment, LGBTQIA+, Infidelity

Contact: betsy@relationship-center.com, (757) 788-2800, ext. 516

Sometimes life is complicated and chaotic, and as a result, you might end up feeling disconnected from yourself and others in your life. I can help with that. I believe therapy can help you to understand yourself, and how you relate to others in your life. Our relationships impact our lives in every way, and the health of those relationships are important to me. I can help you learn about your relationship patterns, and also how to change those patterns. Helping people find their inner peace, strength, and their authentic self is my favorite thing to do.

I can help individuals and partners learn more about their emotional responses, focus on healthy forms of communication, and help you to develop new approaches to various aspects of your life. You are the expert on your life, and every time I get the privilege of working with individuals or those in partnerships, I am truly honored by the courage it takes to commit to the work we do together.

It takes a lot to trust another person with your inner thoughts, feelings, and experiences. When you choose to work with me, I will join with you in the process of growth and development. I am not the kind of therapist that sits back and watches. I believe in being your partner and working hard with you. I promise to work with you to create an affirming space that is safe and nonjudgmental to explore the uncomfortableness of life’s stressors.

If you are interested in discussing your goals further, feel free to contact me either by email at betsy@relationship-center.com, or by phone (757) 788-2800, extension 516.

Rates

Initial Assessment for Individual$245 for 75-minute intake session
Initial Assessment for Couples$275 for 90-minute intake session
Individual/Couples Therapy$200 for 50-minute session
$230 for 75-minute session
$260 for 90-minute session
Active Duty Military Discount10% off all services
Additional Time AvailableProrated at hourly rate
Late CancellationFull Session Fee for cancellation within 24 hours of appointment
No Show Appointment FeeFull Appointment Fee + phone call required to be reinstated on schedule
Intensive CounselingCouples intensive sessions are tailored to meet your specific needs. Rates and recommendations for the length of the intensive will be based on your unique needs. Intensive sessions range anywhere from mini-intensive (3 hours), to a two day intensive (15 hours split over two days). Please schedule a free intensive consultation to discuss what will best fit your needs.

Payment  

Cash, check & credit or debit cards, as well as HSA and FSA cards are accepted for payment.

Insurance  

While insurance is not accepted at this time, Betsy is happy to provide you with receipts and documentation, upon request, to submit to your insurance carrier for reimbursement. Services may be covered in full or in part by your health insurance or employee benefit plan. Please review your coverage carefully, and consult with your insurance provider.

Specialties

This clinician offers the following specialties:

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Gray Divorce

The decision to separate in midlife or beyond brings unique concerns about identity, stability, and the future. Our goal is to help you process emotions, navigate life changes, and build a fulfilling future with confidence.

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Blended Families

Our highly trained therapists help blended families navigate unique complexities with understanding, patience, and effective communication.

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Non-Monogamous Relationships

We provide affirming, judgment-free counseling for individuals, couples, and polycules navigating consensual non-monogamous relationships.

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Divorce & Separation

Whether you are considering separation, navigating the legal process, or adjusting to life after divorce, our expert therapists are here to help.

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Life Transitions

Our highly trained therapists specialize in helping individuals navigate life transitions with confidence and clarity.

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Grief & Loss

We provide compassionate support to help you process your grief, honor your loss, and find a path toward healing.

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Discernment Counseling

Considering separation or divorce but not sure? Our skilled relationship therapists are committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space to help.

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Anxiety & Depression

Our compassionate, evidence-based approach for anxiety and depression is designed to empower you with tools and strategies to reclaim your peace of mind and rediscover joy in your life.

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Brainspotting & EMDR

Our clinicians are experts in the brain-based trauma treatments of Brainspotting and EMDR which bring about life-changing breakthroughs.

military life therapy

Military & Veterans

With extensive experience and training for this unique population, we confidentially and strategically treat the most pressing concerns of military families.

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LGBTQIA+ Therapy

LGBTQIA+ therapy with our experienced therapists helps you understand how to make decisions that are authentic to your identity and protect your relationships.

individual therapy

Individual Counseling

Whatever life challenges you're facing, individual counseling with our expert clinicians provides a safe and supportive space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and goals.

Trauma Therapy

Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, we want to help you make healing changes and move forward with your life.

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Infidelity Counseling

Whether you’re seeking to rebuild the relationship or move on in separate directions, our expert therapists provide infidelity counseling to navigate the road ahead.

Premarital Counseling

Invest in your future with premarital counseling with our highly trained expert clinicians, because the wedding is one day, but your marriage is forever.

Family Counseling

Couples Counseling

This is what we do and who we are! Our experienced therapists specialize in couples therapy to help rebuild connection, trust, and understanding

woman sitting on seashore representative of gray divorce

Gray Divorce

The decision to separate in midlife or beyond brings unique concerns about identity, stability, and the future. Our goal is to help you process emotions, navigate life changes, and build a fulfilling future with confidence.

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Blended Families

Our highly trained therapists help blended families navigate unique complexities with understanding, patience, and effective communication.

person in orange long sleeve shirt sitting next to gray couch dealing with anxiety and depression

Anxiety & Depression

Our compassionate, evidence-based approach for anxiety and depression is designed to empower you with tools and strategies to reclaim your peace of mind and rediscover joy in your life.

Family Counseling

Couples Counseling

This is what we do and who we are! Our experienced therapists specialize in couples therapy to help rebuild connection, trust, and understanding

brainspotting

Brainspotting & EMDR

Our clinicians are experts in the brain-based trauma treatments of Brainspotting and EMDR which bring about life-changing breakthroughs.

A couple and therapist engaged in a discussion during a divorce counseling session indoors.

Divorce & Separation

Whether you are considering separation, navigating the legal process, or adjusting to life after divorce, our expert therapists are here to help.

body of water under cloudy sky

Discernment Counseling

Considering separation or divorce but not sure? Our skilled relationship therapists are committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space to help.

a man holds his head while sitting on a sofa dealing with grief & loss

Grief & Loss

We provide compassionate support to help you process your grief, honor your loss, and find a path toward healing.

individual therapy

Individual Counseling

Whatever life challenges you're facing, individual counseling with our expert clinicians provides a safe and supportive space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and goals.

a therapist providing infidelity counseling to a couple

Infidelity Counseling

Whether you’re seeking to rebuild the relationship or move on in separate directions, our expert therapists provide infidelity counseling to navigate the road ahead.

lgbt therapy

LGBTQIA+ Therapy

LGBTQIA+ therapy with our experienced therapists helps you understand how to make decisions that are authentic to your identity and protect your relationships.

man and woman hanging artwork on the wall dealing with life transitions

Life Transitions

Our highly trained therapists specialize in helping individuals navigate life transitions with confidence and clarity.

military life therapy

Military & Veterans

With extensive experience and training for this unique population, we confidentially and strategically treat the most pressing concerns of military families.

two men smiling near trees, representing happiness in a non-monogamous relationship

Non-Monogamous Relationships

We provide affirming, judgment-free counseling for individuals, couples, and polycules navigating consensual non-monogamous relationships.

Premarital Counseling

Invest in your future with premarital counseling with our highly trained expert clinicians, because the wedding is one day, but your marriage is forever.

Trauma Therapy

Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, we want to help you make healing changes and move forward with your life.