Andrea O’Neill (“Andi”), MA, LPC

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Expert in Emotionally Focused Family Therapy

Specialties: Adult Family Therapy, Divorce, Chronic Illness

Contact: aoneill@relationship-center.com, (757) 788-2800, ext. 511

Even strong, smart, successful people recognize the importance of seeking help from experts. You might not be in a crisis. Your relationship might have been “good enough” for too long now. It’s not always clear how to go about initiating change and it’s helpful to have an objective perspective. Counseling is a great way to improve your life. The process doesn’t have to be intimidating. Before beginning our work together, we’ll discuss your goals, and explore how best to achieve them and an appropriate timeline.

Some of my most rewarding therapy sessions are with couples who learn to understand and accept the differences in one another. Regardless of whether they are neurodivergent or neurotypical.

Raising awareness and helping people better understand their neurodiverse traits is my passion. I can really geek out on this subject. If you don’t believe me, you should see my blog. For those who may be unfamiliar with the term, “neurodiversity” is an inclusive term that encompasses Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Dyslexia, and other similar conditions. If knowledge is power, then understanding neurodiversity is essential, especially for effective communication between partners who think differently. In couple’s therapy, I work to help partners gain a better understanding of each other’s uniquely wired brains. In individual counseling, it’s about improving the relationship that you have with yourself. To paraphrase the title of one of my favorite ADHD self-help books, “You are not Lazy, Stupid, or Crazy!” In a world made to function on neurotypical standards, being neurodivergent can be tough. It’s even tougher if you aren’t even sure you’re neurodivergent or you received a diagnosis later in life. Whether you’d like to increase your self-awareness or work with your partner to improve communication, therapy can help with that… I’d like to help with that.

My own lived experience draws my compassion towards chronic illness and to parents of medically (and mentally) exceptional children. Although my professional area of focus is primarily neurodiversity, I will always try to make room for medically complex individuals and families. Chronic illness affects every aspect of life, contributing to feelings of anger, depression, anxiety, grief, loneliness, and resentment. Therapy helps when you find yourself needing to “be the strong one” or thinking “I don’t want to be a burden to anyone” . I want to help you and your family gain the tools needed to cope with the emotional impact of chronic illness.

For those who are seeking a Christian perspective in counseling, I am comfortable weaving your relationship with God into our work together. Understand that this is about your faith journey, and that I will support you in that journey. It can be reassuring that the therapy you receive will also align with your spiritual beliefs, making it easy to incorporate into your everyday life.

I hope this helps you know a bit about me and how I can help. If you have any questions (any questions at all, really) please feel free to email me at aoneill@relationship-center.com and ask!

Rates

Private Pay Counseling Services

Initial Assessment for Individual$150 for 90-minute session
Individual Therapy$150 for 60-minute session
Initial Assessment for Couples$200 for 120-minute session
Couples Therapy$150 for 60-minute session
Initial Assessment for a Family$200 for 120-minute session
Family Therapy$185 for 90-minute session
Co-parenting sessions and additional servicesRates are available upon request.
Additional Time AvailableHalf of full session fee for up to 30 minutes. Full session fee for over 30 minutes up to but not exceeding full session time.
Late CancellationFull Session Fee for cancellation within 24 hours of appointment
No Show Appointment FeeFull Appointment Fee + phone call required to be reinstated on schedule

Payment

Cash, check and credit or debit cards are accepted for payment.

Insurance

Andi currently accepts Blue Cross Blue Shield and Sentara for Virginia residents.  If Andi does not accept your insurance and you prefer to use your insurance, she will be considered an out-of-network provider. You will be charged the private pay rates and will be provided with a receipt for services that you can submit to your insurance company for reimbursement.

Specialties

This clinician offers the following specialties:

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Neurodivergent Couples

We help neurodivergent couples navigate differences, build mutual understanding, and develop tools to create a thriving, fulfilling partnership.

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Gray Divorce

The decision to separate in midlife or beyond brings unique concerns about identity, stability, and the future. Our goal is to help you process emotions, navigate life changes, and build a fulfilling future with confidence.

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Blended Families

Our highly trained therapists help blended families navigate unique complexities with understanding, patience, and effective communication.

A couple and therapist engaged in a discussion during a divorce counseling session indoors.

Divorce & Separation

Whether you are considering separation, navigating the legal process, or adjusting to life after divorce, our expert therapists are here to help.

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Life Transitions

Our highly trained therapists specialize in helping individuals navigate life transitions with confidence and clarity.

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Grief & Loss

We provide compassionate support to help you process your grief, honor your loss, and find a path toward healing.

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Discernment Counseling

Considering separation or divorce but not sure? Our skilled relationship therapists are committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space to help.

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Caregiving & Chronic Illness Support

Our therapists provide compassionate support to help you build resilience, process your emotions, and create a life that feels fulfilling despite chronic illness.

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Anxiety & Depression

Our compassionate, evidence-based approach for anxiety and depression is designed to empower you with tools and strategies to reclaim your peace of mind and rediscover joy in your life.

Adult Family Counseling

Children of every age crave a close, loving bond with their parents. Adult Family Counseling helps you reconcile long-standing issues and identify patterns, dynamics, and roles to find hope and healing in parenting adult children.

individual therapy

Individual Counseling

Whatever life challenges you're facing, individual counseling with our expert clinicians provides a safe and supportive space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and goals.

Trauma Therapy

Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, we want to help you make healing changes and move forward with your life.

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Infidelity Counseling

Whether you’re seeking to rebuild the relationship or move on in separate directions, our expert therapists provide infidelity counseling to navigate the road ahead.

Premarital Counseling

Invest in your future with premarital counseling with our highly trained expert clinicians, because the wedding is one day, but your marriage is forever.

Family Counseling

Couples Counseling

This is what we do and who we are! Our experienced therapists specialize in couples therapy to help rebuild connection, trust, and understanding

woman sitting on seashore representative of gray divorce

Gray Divorce

The decision to separate in midlife or beyond brings unique concerns about identity, stability, and the future. Our goal is to help you process emotions, navigate life changes, and build a fulfilling future with confidence.

Adult Family Counseling

Children of every age crave a close, loving bond with their parents. Adult Family Counseling helps you reconcile long-standing issues and identify patterns, dynamics, and roles to find hope and healing in parenting adult children.

group of people standing on green grass field during daytime representing blended families

Blended Families

Our highly trained therapists help blended families navigate unique complexities with understanding, patience, and effective communication.

person in orange long sleeve shirt sitting next to gray couch dealing with anxiety and depression

Anxiety & Depression

Our compassionate, evidence-based approach for anxiety and depression is designed to empower you with tools and strategies to reclaim your peace of mind and rediscover joy in your life.

Family Counseling

Couples Counseling

This is what we do and who we are! Our experienced therapists specialize in couples therapy to help rebuild connection, trust, and understanding

woman on bed holding plastic cup dealing with chronic illness

Caregiving & Chronic Illness Support

Our therapists provide compassionate support to help you build resilience, process your emotions, and create a life that feels fulfilling despite chronic illness.

A couple and therapist engaged in a discussion during a divorce counseling session indoors.

Divorce & Separation

Whether you are considering separation, navigating the legal process, or adjusting to life after divorce, our expert therapists are here to help.

body of water under cloudy sky

Discernment Counseling

Considering separation or divorce but not sure? Our skilled relationship therapists are committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space to help.

a man holds his head while sitting on a sofa dealing with grief & loss

Grief & Loss

We provide compassionate support to help you process your grief, honor your loss, and find a path toward healing.

individual therapy

Individual Counseling

Whatever life challenges you're facing, individual counseling with our expert clinicians provides a safe and supportive space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and goals.

a therapist providing infidelity counseling to a couple

Infidelity Counseling

Whether you’re seeking to rebuild the relationship or move on in separate directions, our expert therapists provide infidelity counseling to navigate the road ahead.

man and woman hanging artwork on the wall dealing with life transitions

Life Transitions

Our highly trained therapists specialize in helping individuals navigate life transitions with confidence and clarity.

neurodivergent couple sitting near trees during golden hour

Neurodivergent Couples

We help neurodivergent couples navigate differences, build mutual understanding, and develop tools to create a thriving, fulfilling partnership.

Premarital Counseling

Invest in your future with premarital counseling with our highly trained expert clinicians, because the wedding is one day, but your marriage is forever.

Trauma Therapy

Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, we want to help you make healing changes and move forward with your life.