Joel McNair, LPC, LMFT, LMHC

Board Certified TeleMental Health Therapist

Specialties: Codependency, Substance Abuse, Addictions, Relationship Trauma

Contact: joelmcnair@relationship-center.com, (757) 788-2800, ext. 560

Joel McNair has worked successfully in the community mental health field, in both public and private agencies and in private counseling practice for the past 30+ years. He holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology from Catholic University of America and is credentialed in Florida as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and in Virginia as a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Joel is a Florida and Virginia Approved Clinical Supervisor and is
also credentialed as a Board-Certified TeleMental Health Provider.

Joel offers experience, perspective and professionalism from years of working with people experiencing a wide variety of life challenges, problems, mood and emotional disorders. He views and works with these issues from a cognitive behavioral and solution-focused therapy model, helping people find solutions, make changes and experience improvement in the areas of their life and relationships where they are seeking change. Joel has worked extensively in trauma, addiction and recovery, including couples therapy where one or both of the partners are in recovery and/or struggling with addiction issues both substance and process (eg gambling, pornography).

His goal is to guide individuals and couples to discovering options for getting the life you actually want, and the clearest path to getting there. I’m an experienced clinician with extensive training and I’ve developed a number of direct and targeted approaches for helping individuals find viable and effective solutions to their problems.

In his spare time, Joel enjoys golf, scuba diving, underwater photography, meditation, Qigong, music, swimming, and reading.

Accomplishments

  • Trained with Albert Ellis, PhD (creator and developer) in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
  • Trained with Scott D. Miller, PhD in Brief Solution-Focused Therapy
  • Trained with Patrick Carnes, PhD in Sexual Addiction
  • Provider of the Year Award, Northern Virginia Mental Health Consumer’s Association, 2005
  • Employer of the Year Award, Social Center for Psychiatric Rehabilitation, Inc.,
  • 1993 Outstanding Achievement Award, Fairfax-Falls Church Community services Board, 1992
  • Outstanding Leadership Award, Pathway Homes, Inc., 1984
  • National Institute of Mental Health Fellowship Award, 1976
  • Psychology Student of the Year, 1976, Chapman College, Orange, California

Rates

New Client Consultation to discuss how Joel can help youFree for 15 minute session
Initial Assessment for Individuals$250 for 75-minute session
Individual Therapy$225 for 50-minute session
Initial Assessment for Couples$290 for 75-minute session
Couples Therapy$225 for 50-minute session
Late Cancellation$35 if cancelled within 24 hours of appointment
No Show Appointment FeeFull Appointment Fee

PAYMENT

Cash, check and credit or debit cards are accepted for payment.

Specialties

This clinician offers the following specialties:

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Gray Divorce

The decision to separate in midlife or beyond brings unique concerns about identity, stability, and the future. Our goal is to help you process emotions, navigate life changes, and build a fulfilling future with confidence.

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Divorce & Separation

Whether you are considering separation, navigating the legal process, or adjusting to life after divorce, our expert therapists are here to help.

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Life Transitions

Our highly trained therapists specialize in helping individuals navigate life transitions with confidence and clarity.

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Grief & Loss

We provide compassionate support to help you process your grief, honor your loss, and find a path toward healing.

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Anxiety & Depression

Our compassionate, evidence-based approach for anxiety and depression is designed to empower you with tools and strategies to reclaim your peace of mind and rediscover joy in your life.

individual therapy

Individual Counseling

Whatever life challenges you're facing, individual counseling with our expert clinicians provides a safe and supportive space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and goals.

Trauma Therapy

Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, we want to help you make healing changes and move forward with your life.

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Infidelity Counseling

Whether you’re seeking to rebuild the relationship or move on in separate directions, our expert therapists provide infidelity counseling to navigate the road ahead.

Premarital Counseling

Invest in your future with premarital counseling with our highly trained expert clinicians, because the wedding is one day, but your marriage is forever.

Family Counseling

Couples Counseling

This is what we do and who we are! Our experienced therapists specialize in couples therapy to help rebuild connection, trust, and understanding

woman sitting on seashore representative of gray divorce

Gray Divorce

The decision to separate in midlife or beyond brings unique concerns about identity, stability, and the future. Our goal is to help you process emotions, navigate life changes, and build a fulfilling future with confidence.

person in orange long sleeve shirt sitting next to gray couch dealing with anxiety and depression

Anxiety & Depression

Our compassionate, evidence-based approach for anxiety and depression is designed to empower you with tools and strategies to reclaim your peace of mind and rediscover joy in your life.

Family Counseling

Couples Counseling

This is what we do and who we are! Our experienced therapists specialize in couples therapy to help rebuild connection, trust, and understanding

A couple and therapist engaged in a discussion during a divorce counseling session indoors.

Divorce & Separation

Whether you are considering separation, navigating the legal process, or adjusting to life after divorce, our expert therapists are here to help.

a man holds his head while sitting on a sofa dealing with grief & loss

Grief & Loss

We provide compassionate support to help you process your grief, honor your loss, and find a path toward healing.

individual therapy

Individual Counseling

Whatever life challenges you're facing, individual counseling with our expert clinicians provides a safe and supportive space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and goals.

a therapist providing infidelity counseling to a couple

Infidelity Counseling

Whether you’re seeking to rebuild the relationship or move on in separate directions, our expert therapists provide infidelity counseling to navigate the road ahead.

man and woman hanging artwork on the wall dealing with life transitions

Life Transitions

Our highly trained therapists specialize in helping individuals navigate life transitions with confidence and clarity.

Premarital Counseling

Invest in your future with premarital counseling with our highly trained expert clinicians, because the wedding is one day, but your marriage is forever.

Trauma Therapy

Whether the trauma happened years ago or yesterday, we want to help you make healing changes and move forward with your life.